5.  Through dialogue and healing touch, we focus on the root of the pattern… illusions are shattered… and a new capacity for healthy choices emerges.

Through the development of conscious awareness, one can begin to change patterns. One may see that the relationship itself can help them to heal, and at the same time, the relationship can be healed. Learning to seize the opportunity which is provided, rather than staying stuck in repeated patterns of unfulfilling relationships, is part of the work.

In my Healing Practice, when this dilemma presents itself, I have learned to focus our attention at the causal level of patterns. This is done through dialogue and healing touch, and I have found it to be quite successful. As a consequence, resilience is built for the person who was too fragile to handle certain life challenges. One who might take everyday interactions as personal assaults, begins to build strength, boundaries and a capacity to be non-reactive. Illusions about safety and danger in relationship are shattered.

The ability to recognize unsafe situations arises with the capacity for healthy separateness, true connections with self and an ability to make mature personal choices.

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